Here’s how I Love!😍💕

When you love someone, you must also embrace the challenges that will come your way. Love doesn’t come easy and I’m pretty sure we all know that!
To engage in love we must learn how to think, respect, understand, accept, and to top them all, patience is a must have.

THINK – Have you ever done something without thinking and made you regret? Yes! That happened to me several times.. I made decisions in a snap, said words that I shouldn’t have, bought things that aren’t even necessary and at the end of the day I came to realize “damn!” What was I thinking?? The bottomline is, THINK first before you talk and THINK before you make a decision and THINK in general because once it’s done it can be corrected (in the future) but it can never be undone.

RESPECT – No matter who you are or what you are RESPECT is the key to everything. Without respect then there comes NOTHING.
If you don’t think, you won’t realize the essence of Respect.

UNDERSTAND – It’s hard to understand especially when you DON’T want to understand. There’s no perfect relationship out there. But, if you stop for awhile and listen then you will have the chance to think and understand.
If you don’t have Respect then you don’t take time to Understand.

ACCEPT – It is very important for me that whatever or wherever love takes me, I am willing to do and follow what needs to be done. Because things happen for a reason and acceptance will make life easier when something comes up.
If you don’t take time to Understand then, it would be hard for you to accept.

PATIENCE – OH YES! I used to have tons of PATIENCE but i noticed lately, it’s almost touching the bottom of the pan.. So I stopped and took my time to THINK and I thought of the words RESPECT, UNDERSTAND and ACCEPT. It made me realize that I wasn’t doing things the right way and these words made my decisions easier and hopefully I will never regret. Being patient can lead to the path of happiness…safe with no regrets..😍👍

BUT! You must also include FAITH and PRAYERS to accomplish them all. Because I honestly believe that the Lord’s guidance is the CENTER of everything and he makes the Impossible…Possible.🙏

Leave your comments guys and I would love to hear your thoughts! CYBER HUG EVERYONE!! 👭🙋👍😘

It’s only the end of January and….

It’s only the end of January and my husband already got his Valentines gift for me.. This is torture and I want to secretly open them to find out what’s inside! Haha.. Any Valentines day gift ideas for men?? 😍❤️

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“F R I E N D S”

Looking back made me think.. Wow! I was popular.. I have tons of friends.. Some even get upset when I couldn’t go to their events or attend a birthday party.. I wasn’t “Georgina George” kinda gal for everyone in school to notice but I was just doing my thing.. Minding my own business and just being the friendly me..

When I finished school and started working.. Less and less people became visible and when situation occurred and needed someone to talk to… Mhhaaannn…😱 Only a handful came to comfort.. I then realized.. Yeah! They weren’t my FRIENDS.. They were just “friends”..👎

Now that I moved billion miles away from home..I am in a place were people just come and go! Neighbors faces kept changing every now and then, even co-workers come and quickly go!

At this point of my life, I am at the stage of not wanting to make “FRIENDS” anymore.. What for? They’ll leave anyway.. If someone comes and say ” can we be friends?” I’ll gladly share the same but I’ve learned that nothing in this world is constant so we have to move forward and keep the THOSE who will stay..

If you look at it closely.. The word FRIEND has an END..👭💔👥

How Did I End up Blogging?

Having a full time job is a blessing especially when you love what you do. However, that doesn’t mean you are complete and will settle for it. I don’t have friends to hang out with or someone to go to the mall nor shop “girly stuff buddy” so I ended up browsing youtube. I have been hooked in watching youtube videos like “what’s in my bag” or “beauty and fashion” type videos just to get through a boring day.

I even spent most of my time online shopping or just going shopping for no reason (and my husband said “I am becoming a shopaholic”).😱
But, I still feel empty and was thinking how can I express myself, my thoughts or even how I feel in my own way that no one will judge me but instead share their opinions or encouragement if being noticed.

The word “blog” popped in my mind so I decided to make my first post, then second and third and now I just can’t stop sharing. I am not a writer nor a poet.. I am just an ordinary person who wants to share how I feel.. I am not asking to be noticed but I truly appreciate those who did and will in the future.. I didn’t want to keep this post this long but thoughts just kept coming and now blogging is my channel to keep my mind busy and maybe stop going to mall and shop for no reason..😜

Hopefully through blogging, I will enhance my writing skills and will look back and say “Yes! blogging saved me from being a shopaholic??”👠👜👗💄😱Haha… No, seriously I hope one day I will look back and say “Blogging led me to today (with a smile)😊”…👍